It’s simple. It’s effective. And it gives you the GREATEST gift by the end of the year. That’s right – couples need to try this simple daily activity from 1st January. And the good news is – it takes less than 30 seconds a day!
Inspired by the trending idea to put a weekly gratitude note in a jar, we’re encouraging couples to – instead – create a gratitude jar for each other.
How Exactly To Do This:
From 1st January 2025, all you have to do, is write ONE thing down every single day, that you love about your partner, one thing you appreciate about them, or one particular thing you were grateful for that day.
This could be anything from:
- It touched my heart watching you play with our daughter today. Charlotte got you playing “dress up!” It was so unbelievably sweet. (NOTE: Pick out on specific memories, so at the end of the year, you can bring them all back!)
- I was so grateful that you cooked dinner this evening – I really didn’t fancy it! It didn’t taste the best (admittedly!) but it didn’t even matter! I love you. (NOTE: Your messages can be as long or as short as you like. Just be sure to add your personality into it!)
- Today, you kissed my forehead before you left for work. I love it when you kiss me. I feel so close and connected to you right now. (NOTE: Try to pick up on the big things and the small things. As often – it’s the small stuff you don’t tell your partner enough.)
Why This Is So Powerful:
By doing this, you’re better expressing how you feel and really showing your partner how much you love and appreciate them.
It also gets you noticing, every day, how lucky you really are, which helps you to feel closer to your partner.
It encourages you to find small things you’re grateful for about your partner, which can sometimes be otherwise lost.

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Then check out our 30 Day Couples Intimacy Challenge. Trust me, this one is a serious game-changer, and will strengthen your relationship like never before.
What To Do From Here:
What to do from here? Well, you have two options…
- Either keep this to yourself, doing it each day in secret. You’ll then have the most wonderful gift to give your partner, creating a super special New Year’s Eve.
- Or – send this to your partner, so that they can do it as well. This means, you’ll both have one to open, come 31st December 2025, and you can turn the opening process into more of a date night in itself!
“What If We Don’t Start Straight Away?!”
Now we say that couples need to try this simple daily activity from 1st January, but if you’re late coming across this article – FEAR NOT.
You can jump on it at any point really…
If you’re a month late, you can turn it into a sweet Valentines gift for the following year.
It also makes for a great anniversary gift or romantic surprise at any time, so don’t let a date put you off… Just make sure you do this. (Trust me, you won’t regret it!)

That’s All For This One
So there we have it – that rounds this up.
Couples need to try this simple daily activity from 1st January – don’t you agree?! Let us know in the comments box below. Type: “I’m IN!” if you agree!
Wishing you all the very best for 2025 and beyond.
Love,
Ell_xx
