Looking for a question game for couples? Different questions to ask your partner? Then try our our (FREE!) DIY Couples Question Game, packed full of interesting relationship questions. This is the ultimate list of fun questions to ask your partner, so that conversation never runs dry.
It includes 150 questions to ask your partner, broken down into 4 main categories.
Want more? Then double it up to make it 300 by trying to guess what the other person is going to say… Just make sure they write down their answer before you so there’s no cheating.
Fancy making it a little competitive? Then tally up the points you both got right and the one with the most points, wins. (There’s nothing like a bit of healthy competition to bring you closer hey?!)
Or of course, keeping it relaxed works too. It depends on the two of you, your style and the kind of free home date night vibe you desire
The great thing is, this couples question game is super flexible and based around you! So let’s jump straight in, shall we?
The Ultimate Couples Question Game
As mentioned, this Couples Question Game is made up of four key categories:
> Questions About Them: These questions will help you get to know your partner (or see how well you know them already!) This is always an interesting one, and you can extend it further with these how well do you know me questions if you really want to test this to the max!
> Questions About You: This section is less about how well they know you / you know them, and more about what they think about you. (Super juicy, I know!)
> Questions About The Relationship: These questions are pretty cute. They’ll get you talking about the relationship and reminiscing, but also learning about what’s most important to you both. (Remember, it’s good to ask more intimate questions in a relationship. It brings you closer.)
> Questions About Love: Last but not least then, we have the general questions about love – hearing your partners thoughts and opinions on these kind of things.
Start from the top, or have a scroll through, then mix it up! Either way, you’re guaranteed great conversation with these ones…
QUESTIONS ABOUT THEM
The first section on our couples question game is questions for them. Ask your partner these questions so that you can really get to know them on a deeper level.
1) What would you say you are most passionate about?
2) What is your biggest fear?
3) If you could achieve ONE life goal, what would it be?
4) If you could describe yourself in 3 words, what would they be?
5) How high would you rate your confidence on a scale of 1-10?
DID YOU KNOW: 85% of people report struggling with self-confidence issues at some point in their lives, is this can be an interesting discussion point in itself!
6) What personality trait do you like most and least about yourself?
7) And what physical feature do you like most and least about yourself?
8) Would you rather be smart or attractive? And which one do you think you are more?!
9) What’s one thing only I (or very few people) know about you? Got any new info you can share? Now’s the time! This couples question game is designed to test you, after all!
10) Do you think I can read you well? Or do I often not notice / interpret things wrong?
11) If you could have three wishes right now, in this moment, what would they be? (Quick fire! You have 30 seconds to decide on the spot… otherwise they’ll disappear!)
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12) If you could be anywhere in the world right now, where would you be and why?
13) What would be your dream job?
14) How would you spend your time when you retire? (Ask this question in two ways. First- if they had unlimited money, and then- based on what they think they’d be able to do realistically!)
15) If you could go back to any age in your life – which year would you choose and why?
16) If you could meet one person (from any era in time), who would it be and why?
17) What are your top three greatest achievements in your life so far? And how about your biggest regrets?
18) If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
19) If you could find out one thing about your future, what would you want to know? AND, what would you do if it wasn’t the answer you wanted but you couldn’t change it?
20) What’s your favourite food / meal / desert / fruit / chocolate / drink? Etc. You get the picture!
21) What is your favourite book / song / movie / tv series? Etc.
22) What’s one of the first things you think about when you wake up?
23) What’s the weirdest dream you’ve ever had? Or one you’ve had recently?
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24) How do you think your family and upbringing has influenced the way you see love?
25) What do you think are the main things that have shaped you into who you are now?
26) Who are your five / ten favourite people on this planet?
27) If you could go back to school, which classes would you like to do again?
28) What’s the dumbest thing you’ve ever done? (Fun) And what is the hardest lesson you’ve had to learn? (Serious) Uh huh, we like to mix the tone of these couples questions up!
29) Is there any advice you wish you could give to your younger self?
30) Who was your first crush / your first kiss / your first boyfriend / girlfriend – and how long did that last? (We’re talking primary school sort of relationships here. Not serious ones!)
31) What brings meaning to your life? Or what do you think is your “purpose” in life?
32) What simple things make you happy?
33) What kind of music could you listen to, all night long, and never get bored of?
34) If you could wear just one outfit for a whole year (day and night, that’s all you had in your wardrobe) – what would it be? Note: you’re allowed to layer up for winter!
35) Do you think you’re an optimist, pessimist or realist? And which is the best one to be?
Psst, want to find out how well you know your boyfriend? Then check out our “This Or That” Quick-Fire Questions or Couples “Most Likely To” Question Game. All of these are fast, easy to play, fun… and also free!
QUESTIONS ABOUT YOU
It’s section two on the couples question game and we’re going to swap it around to see what they think about you and how much they know about you!What’s your favourite quality in me?
36) What’s your favourite quality in me?
37) How about your favourite physical feature of mine?
38) If you could describe me in 3 words, what would they be?
39) What’s one little quirk you love about me? Or something that I do, that makes you smile?
40) What was the biggest thing that attracted you to me? How did I draw you in?! (Question for you – did you recognise the signs he was falling for you, in the moments it was happening?!)
41) Do you think I’m easy to read?
42) What makes you love me more? And how have your feelings grown over time?
43) What’s one thing that frustrates you about me? (Be nice!)
44) What makes me different from other people you’ve been with?
45) What’s one thing you think no-one realises about me?
46) Have you ever been unsure about how I felt or if we were on the same page?
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47) How many times do you think I cross your mind over the course of the day?
48) What is the nicest thing I’ve ever done for you?
49) On the flip side, what do you think is something I’ll never forget you doing for me?
50) If you were going to plan a super extravagant surprise for me (and money wasn’t a cost) – what would you do for me? What do you think I would most like?
51) What’s one thing that I’ve done for you that surprised you? Or one thing that will always stick with you?
52) What’s one thing you think you don’t tell me enough (if at all), but which you want me to know? (We love this one. Remember, there’s plenty of different ways to say I love you. This question is designed to bring this out more!)
53) What side of you do I bring out which is different?
54) What do you think I am most scared of?
55) If you could ask me one question (anything in the world!) what would you want to know?
56) What’s your favourite outfit of mine and why?
57) If you could take me anywhere on a romantic get-away, where would we go, and why? (Psst, and yes, you can use this to then do a romantic gesture for your partner!)
58) If you could grant me one wish (but you couldn’t ask me what I wanted) what would you give me?
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59) What do you think I believe in which you think isn’t true?
60) What’s one thing you think I’d change about myself? This one’s a bit risky!
61) What is one thing that holds me back? (Find these questions a little more thought provoking… But actually kind of like it?! Then ask yourself these questions to get to know yourself better, to get yourself thinking and exploring more!)
62) What’s a talent that I have, which I don’t even realise?
63) Which TV character / book character / celebrity, do I remind you of the most?
64) What’s one thing you see in me, which you think not many other people do?
65) When do you think was the last time I cried? (Either with sadness or laughter, both count!)
66) What job do you think would fit my personality style perfectly?
67) If you were stuck on a desert island with one of my friends or family, who would you choose and why? (Think tactically!)
68) How long do you think I could go without …enter variable here…?
69) What’s my favourite …enter any variable here…?
70) Tell me one thing you want me to know… right now… go, go, go!
Want To Add In Some Dares?
Enjoying our Couples Question Game? Don’t want it to end? Then here’s spice it up with some COUPLES DARES! 160 dares designed specifically for you and your partner – featuring dares which are fun, flirty, sexy and silly!
QUESTIONS ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP
We’re over half way through now, so the next section in our couples question game is all about your relationship!
71) In what ways do you think we are similar? And in what ways do you think we are different?
72) How do you think we complement each other? What makes us work so well?
73) If you could describe our relationship in 3 words, what would they be?
74) What are some of your favourite memories of us?
75) If you could change one thing about the relationship, what would it be? (This may sound like quite a tricky question, but remember – tough relationship questions are important at times! This couples question game is meant to push you!)
76) If our relationship was like a movie, which one would it be? (Think of some of the best romcoms!)
77) When did you first know that you had feelings for me?
78) Who do you think fell in love first, you or I?
79) What makes you feel the most loved? How do you like to receive love?
80) What’s the most romantic thing you’ve ever done or would like to do?
81) Do you think we share the same values and morals?
82) How about attachment styles – do you think we have the same one in the relationship?
83) Do you think we have more similarities or more differences? And which is more important?
84) Do you think we want the same things in this relationship, and in life? In which ways is this the same and in which ways could it be different?
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85) If you could have only kisses OR cuddles for the rest of your life, which would you choose?
86) What would be your idea of our ‘happily ever after…’? Your dream for where you see us going?
87) (Fun one, no pressure…) What would be your favourite male and female baby names?
88) Do you see us having kids together and if so, what kind of parents do you think we would be?
89) Do you see us getting married, and if so, what kind of wedding would we have?
90) What are you most proud of us for, in our relationship? (I.E. What things have you achieved or overcome? Think what bad relationship habits you may have broken!)
91) How do you think that you’re a good partner? And how could you improve?
92) What do you think makes me a good partner? And how could I improve?
93) What makes you feel close to me?
94) What does it feel like when you hold me? Kiss me? Touch me?
95) What do you think when you look at me?
96) Is there anything that makes you feel vulnerable in the relationship?
97) Do you feel like you can talk to me about anything? And is there anything you wish we spoke about more? Or anything you wish you could speak more freely about?
98) Do you think we have good communication? Rate it on a scale of 1-10!
99) How do you think we deal with conflict? Do we have similar or different styles?
100) What do you think is the best way to “make up” after conflict? And do you think we settle it this way enough?
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101) Do you think we’d still last if we had a long distance relationship? Say we lived in different cities/ counties / countries? And if yes, how would you make it survive?
102) Have you ever doubted how much I love you? And if so, when / why?
103) Who do you think knows who better in our relationship?
104) What lessons have you learnt from your past relationships, which have made ours stronger or better?
105) If we could be like one celebrity couple, who would you pick? #CoupleGoals
106) If we were to make new pet names for each other, what would you go for? What would you call me and what would you like yours to be?
107) What’s your most embarrassing memory of us?
108) What are three things you’d love us to do together?
109) What do you wish we’d make more time for? (Remember, quality time is vitally important, in itself. But there’s plenty of ways to make more time for quality time in a relationship… Thankfully!)
110) Do you think we spend too much time together or too little?
111) If we looked a different way do you think we’d still be together today?
112) What’s one thing you think would make our relationship stronger? (It could be as simple as learning how to let things go in a relationship… So that the little things don’t become big things!)
113) What would you say is the biggest challenge we’ve gotten through as a couple?
114) What do you think we can take for granted about the other person?
115) How do you think we’ve changed both as individuals and as a couple, since we first got together? (For better and for worse!)
QUESTIONS ABOUT LOVE
Last but not least, we’ve made it onto section four – the final stage to round up our relationship questions. Woohoo – that’s a hell of a lot you’ve got through!
For this bit, we’re going to ask general questions about love and relationships. This is -arguably- the most interesting category yet, as it really explores your partners views against your own.
Psst. if you like these, we have plenty more Questions About Love to keep them flowing!
116) How do you know when you’re in love?
117) Do you believe in love at first sight?
118) Is there such a thing as ‘soul mates’?
119) What’s your views on marriage?
120) Why do you think divorce rates are so high? And does that put you off the idea of marriage?
121) Do you think people change when they’re in a relationship? For better or for worse? And in what ways?
122) How much do you think you should compromise in a relationship? Or change as a person, for another person?
123) Do you believe that star signs hold any value to compatibility in a relationship?
124) What is the most important type of love, and why?
125) Do you think ex’s can be friends?
126) Do you think it’s common for ex’s to get back together? Why / why not? And does it then work?
127) What do you think is the best thing about being in a relationship?
128) What do you think is the best relationship advice we’ve ever been given? Or the best relationship advice you’ve heard?
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129) What’s one thing that scares you about love? Or what do you think most people are scared about in relationships, and why?
130) How easy do you think it is to fall in love, for the vast majority of people?
131) Why do you think people fall out of love? And do you think that means they’re not truly compatible?
132) How common do you think it is for people to THINK they’re in love, but actually they’re not? And what do you think are the key differences between this? (E.G. Is it love or lust?)
133) Do you think it’s difficult to trust others? Should people be wary?
134) What does it mean to you to be able to trust someone fully? What does that look like? How should it be?
135) How do you think trust can be rebuilt once it’s broken? (If you think it can be.)
136) What would you class as cheating? For instance, if your partner has a crush on someone else, is that being unfaithful?
137) What’s worse, an emotional affair or a physical one? And why?
138) Do you believe in karma? (Particularly when it comes to mistreatment in a relationship?
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139) How much weight do you think a person should put on the opinions of others when it comes to relationships? For example, if your family didn’t like / approve of me as a partner, would it influence your decision to be with me? Should it or should it not? And why?
140) Do you think people should change themselves for their partner?
141) What do you think are the signs of an unhealthy relationship?
142) What do you think makes a relationship healthy, happy and long lasting? (Or ever lasting!)
143) What do you think are the most romantic things someone can do for another person, to show how much they care?
144) What do you think is the strongest type of connection – a physical connection or emotional connection?
145) What do you think causes the most problems in a relationship?
146) Do you think it matters if one person earns more than the other in a relationship? And how can this cause problems, looking at it from both situations and both sides?
147) What do you think is the hardest thing about finding a life-long partner?
148) What do you think is the best and worst thing about dating today?
149) Would you rather have extraordinary love that doesn’t last forever, or ordinary love that does?
150) Would you …enter a crazy scenario here… for love?
That’s a Wrap!
So there we have it – our Couples Question Game is complete!
That’s a total of 150 questions to ask your partner. (Although you can also double it up and swap it around, to make it a mighty 300!)
Remember, you don’t have to do all of these questions in one go – save this article so you can keep coming back to it.
Alternatively, you may like to move onto our Couples Trivia Questions – there’s another 200 questions which tests just how well you know your partner – whilst also getting to know them on a deeper level too. (Win, win!)
There’s also these 225 Funny Questions To Ask Your Partner (guaranteed to create some giggles!) (This is my personal favourite.)
Have fun! Keep it going.
Love,
Ell_xx
I had so much fun using these questions with my boyfriend, and he actually participated!
This is great! My husband and I are coming up on our 7-year anniversary and I honestly have no idea what his reaction would be to some of these. It’s a great time to really get to know your partner.
Hey Ell,
I love your blog name and layout. I enjoyed the questions in this post! I am going to try the questions out to spice up this new connection I made while in quarantine.
Thanks again,
Asya