Feeling tired? Has date night come around and you’re unsure what to do? Well, fear not, as we reveal #1 date night for when you’re feeling drained!
That’s right – date night can still be everything you want and need, no matter how you feel! You don’t have to postpone it, or opt for simply watching TV…
What quality time is that when you’re simply staring at a screen?! (Unless it’s our genuius Couples Home Cinema Night Date Idea that is! 😉)
No, no, no, when it comes for date ideas when you’re tired, you can do FAR better than that…
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#1 Date Night For When You’re Feeling Drained
When it comes to the #1 date night for when you’re feeling drained, we recommend… drum roll please… A couples pamper night, of course!
But hey, hold up, don’t leave us just yet – because we’ve got some super cute and cool ideas to help you craft the BEST ONE YET!
How To Create The Best Couples Pamper Night
When it comes to creating a proper couples pamper night, we recommend these top 3 tips, to make it everything it can and should be:
1) Plan It Properly Beforehand
Don’t simply see what you have in the cupboard that night. It’s not going to be HALF the date night! Get organised with it…
– Stock up on face masks and beauty products. Go all out! Get the things you both want and need in. The more products you have, the more you can play around with it all together.
To save money – consider buying a ready-made Spa Kit for 2, or a beauty bundle. I recommend SpaLife’s 10 Piece Set as it includes two different types of face wraps, nail & cuticle wraps, foot socks and hand gloves for you both, at a ridiculously good price!

– Treat yourselves to some cute couples matching PJ’s. We have these Ribbed Nnit Pajamas, which are super sweet & comfy, but this Satin Pajama Set is pretty sexy if that’s the “vibe” you’d rather go for, too! You don’t have to spend a lot but you’ll have them for all your home date nights then, and they’re well worth it in my opinion.
– Don’t forget the extra finishing touches – like bubble bath, romantic snacks, blankets, your spa music playlist, that sort of thing! These make all the difference and really set the scene. 🫶

2) Take Your Time On The Night
If you’re looking to make this a date night for when you’re feeling drained that ACTUALLY helps to strengthen your relationship – then take your time with it. That’s the magic key here!
Use it as an opportunity to re-connect and feel closer to your partner…
If you have a bath – run that and jump in together, before you even get stuck into any of the beauty products.
Take the time to talk, to ask intimate questions you wouldn’t usually. Use it as a real bonding opportunity, in a relaxed environment where you can drop any guards and just be yourselves.
There’s no rush, no pressure. It’s all about spending quality time together, because THAT is then what will leave you feeling refreshed once you’ve finished!


3) Up The Intimacy
Our final tip number 3 for your Couples Pamper Night, is to use it as an opportunity to seriously up the intimacy!
And I know, I know – you’re feeling tired. DRAINED even. That’s why you’re looking for easy date night ideas here!
But once you’ve gotten into it all a little (and especially if you’ve managed to have a hot bath!) you’ll feel far more relaxed and – in a strange way – a little more energised.
Remember, there’s different types of intimacy your relationship actually really needs, and if you’re having deep conversations, you’ll be meeting your emotional needs, but you may as well connect physically whilst you’re at it, too…

So once you’ve worked your way through your beauty routines, try to finish the date night by taking it in turns to give each other a massage.
Massages are one of the powerful ways to build intimacy in a relationship, actually, so you may well find you end up making a habit out of it!
But it’s the perfect way to end – what will actually turn out to be- a pretty memorable date night!
That’s All For This One
So there we have it – that rounds up our #1 date night for when you’re feeling drained, with a few extra tips to pull it together.
If you liked this idea, why not find time for it this weekend, or schedule it in for the next couple of weeks?
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again – making time for quality time together is vitally important, and it is possible, especially with a helping hand from easy home date ideas like this!
Keep making time for each other, keep making an effort to stay connected with each other. It’s one of the healthiest relationship habits you can have, my friends. 🫶
Love,
Ell_xx
