Looking to improve your intimacy? Want to re-ignite the spark in your relationship tonight?! Then here’s 5 simple saucy surprises for your man, to spice up relationship this evening…
That’s right, there’s no time like the present! Be bold, be playful, be spontaneous!
See, working on your intimacy is important, and – the good news is – there’s plenty of fun, flirty, small gestures you can do to spice things up, almost instantly!
The key – is to have the confidence, courage and – well, in some cases – the motivation to actually do it.
So, before you read any further, I want you to COMMIT… Commit to picking at least one of these things on this list and doing it tonight!
There’s a great quote that says:
“Do what you did at the beginning of the relationship and there won’t be an end.”
Would you think twice about doing some of these things early on? I don’t think so!
So put a sexy playlist on, get yourself in the mood, and pick one of these 5 simple things to spice your relationship up tonight…
5 Saucy Surprises For Your Man (That You Can Do Tonight!)
Pick one, or do all 5 – it’s completely up to you. See, these saucy surprises for your man don’t take too much time or effort, which is why they’re so easy to do, anytime.
1) Start By Sending a Naughty Text
Want to surprise your man, whilst reigniting chemistry? Then start by simply sending a naughty text.
It can be anything from fun and flirty to downright DIRTY… But if you don’t usually do this kind of thing, he’s sure to be surprised!
Tell him what you want to do in the bedroom that evening. In fact… Tell him what you want to do to him when you get home!
Have fun with it. It’s nothing serious. Remember – this is your partner, you should have taken the time to build genuine love and trust.
You’re just joking around with this to keep the relationship fun and exciting – so don’t be embarrassed by it!
Be descriptive, be a little bit naughty, and see how much you can excite him through your words alone! 😉
2) Surprise Him As Soon As He Walks In
Now, if you sent the naughty text, you’ll already have primed him for a nighty of saucy surprises! (Great stuff!) But that’s what makes it all the more surprising when you don’t just “talk the talk” but continue it on once he gets home.
Be there, waiting for him at home (if possible) once he gets in. You can do this by…
- Standing seductively, holding something naughty in your mouth.
- Wearing a naughty outfit (most popular.)
- Or, hey – if the curtains are closed and the neighbours can’t see – wearing no clothes at all!
- Another naughty surprise is if you’re wearing normal clothes (e.g. a dress for instance), only to reveal… this time, there’s no underwear on underneath!
You want to do this to tempt him, tease him, flirt with him and excite him!
Relationships can get so comfortable and – in the nicest of ways – a little predictable. So throwing in saucy surprises for your man like this, once in a while, really helps to keep it fresh and exciting!
(Oh and by the way – if you struggle with body confidence and feeling confident in the way you look, it’s also a great, empowering exercise for that, too. Push outside your comfort zone my friends, as it not only benefits you, but your relationship too!)
3) Spice Up The Conversation
Now if you want to not only build the chemistry, but sustain it and heighten it – don’t let things escalate physically straight away.
No, no, no. There’s different types of intimacy in a relationship and it doesn’t need to be, nor should it be, all physical. (If it is, then boy are you missing out!)
So if you’ve started with a naughty text, surprised him once he’s got home – allow him to look but not yet touch and throw in some hot, spicy questions to ask your partner to really drive him crazy! Use your conversation to make it even more of a tease!
It’s worth mentioning that you can also use naughty questions as a way to spice up and surprise your partner, by themself, too.
For example, forget the standard small talk on date night – ask more flirty, intimate questions in inappropriate places (e.g. at a restaurant or bar!) and that works well as a saucy surprise for your man too.
Or, right when things are starting to get physically intimate, pull them out then! It’s up to you…
4) Focus Purely On Pleasuring Him!
Sticking with the theme of teasing and pleasing, a nice saucy surprise for your man if you don’t always do it enough is to focus PURELY on pleasuring him…
Of course, things should be pretty even in the bedroom so you’re not going to just give, give, give, every time! But to mix it up – it then makes it a great surprise.
Don’t let him touch you. Again – go with the “you can look, but you can’t touch” and take your time, doing the things you know he loves and which drives him crazy!
Remember, relationships should be more about giving than what you get anyway. You shouldn’t do things to get something back… But by surprising him in this way, he’s most certainly going to want to “repay” you in the same way another time!
So take control – really focus on stepping things up in the bedroom, and you’ll not only become closer physically, but feel closer to your partner emotionally too.
5) Order Something New For The Bedroom
Last but not least then, a simple way to spice things up in the bedroom, is undoubtably to order something new! This could be a new outfit or a new “toy.” Whatever you want and fancy!
You can order something and use that as a naughty surprise for your man…
Or, you can order something together. Maybe end your night of surprises by picking something out, ordering with next day delivery to keep the sparks flying!
It’s good to experiment with different things (that are within your comfort zone and which you’re – of course – happy with!)
It doesn’t have to be embarrassing, but more so, a bonding “experience!”
And that’s a good note to finish on – with all of these saucy surprises for your man – ONLY do what you are comfortable with. This is for you as much as for him. Remember that.
That’s All For This One
So there we have it – that rounds up our 5 naughty surprises for your man that you can do TONIGHT! Remember the commitment – to pick one and do it TODAY… And have fun with it!
Best of luck.
Love,
Ell_xx
