Looking for Summer solo date ideas, you’ll actually feel comfortable doing on your own? Fancy taking on your very own Summer solo date challenge? Then here’s 24+ Summer solo date ideas you have to get stuck into this year. Get planning, get excited!
The Benefits of Going on a Solo Date
Before we get into it, I want to briefly mention the benefits of going on a solo date to begin with.
After all, if you’ve never really been on solo dates before, it can feel a little bit daunting. You’ll find yourself making excuses or putting it off.
But just remember:
- Solo dates can help you really grow in confidence.
- They push you outside your comfort zone, which makes you grow as a person.
- When you go on solo dates, it improves your independence.
- Solo dates also encourage self-discovery. It’s a great way to learn more about yourself and get to know yourself far better.
- Solo dates can promote a sense of self love. In fact, regularly doing solo dates is one of the best self love habits you can develop. You learn how to become your own best friend, really value yourself and appreciate your own company.
- They also give you a chance to do things that you enjoy, without any external pressure or expectations. You’re not trying to please anyone else. You’re just doing things for yourself.
- The more comfortable you become with solo dates, the more valuable they are. In fact, they can even become a valuable form of self care – offering an opportunity to relax, recharge and reconnect with yourself.
- Solo dates can be incredibly empowering. They show you that you don’t have to rely on or depend on anyone else – which is a great feeling, no matter what your relationship status is.
How This Works
We want to encourage you to go on more solo dates, so we’ve pulled together 24 top seasonal solo date ideas for you to do this Summer.
You may have started this previously with our Spring solo date ideas, in which case good on you for continuing it on into Summer too! 👏
Why do we recommend 24? Well, because it stocks you up with 2 Summer solo date ideas, every single week, over the course of Summer
Depending on when you find this article, you may not be able to fit all 24 in. But that’s okay.
Just set yourself your own personal Summer solo date challenge whereby – from this moment on – you’ll aim to do 1-2 solo dates each week.
We’ve mixed up some smaller solo date ideas – perfect for midweek, as well as bigger activities – perfect for weekends. So pick and choose.
Start by scheduling your first couple of spring solo dates now – whether that’s for this week or next. Start with the ones that are the easiest and less daunting for you. Then build it up from there.
Be proud of yourself, show yourself self-compassion in the times where it may feel difficult, and get excited. This is going to be a game-changer when it comes to personal growth and development, and we’re really rooting for you – every step of the way!
24+ Summer Solo Date Ideas
Now, let’s get stuck in with these Summer solo date ideas, shall we?
In no particular order, our favourite Summer solo dates we recommend this season are…
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1) Watch The Sunrise
A sunrise solo date is one of the best morning date ideas you can do…
And sure, it means rising early, but there’s plenty of benefits of morning sunlight, so it’s a great way to start your day…
Hey, who knows, you may even end up adding this into your morning routine!
Grab a coffee, beat the crowds and find a nice spot to watch the sunrise. It’s certainly one to tick off in summertime when the sky is clear and bright!
2) Watch The Sunset
Alternatively, watching the sunset makes for an equally as sweet sunset date.
Switch up the sunset spots you choose each time – from riverside to mountain top, beach to sunset bar (if you’re feeling brave!)
You’ll find more couples are out and about, also doing the same, but that’s okay!
Feel proud to be watching it by yourself and focus on enjoying the moment itself instead of comparing yourself to anyone else.
3) Go Fruit Picking
Looking for sweet Summer solo date ideas – in more ways than one?! Then fruit picking 100% has to make it onto your Summer date bucket list.
From cherries to berries, plums to in some places – even peaches!
Get a cute Summer dress on, and make a nice afternoon out of it. The hardest part will be trying to resist not eating them as you go along!
4) Eat Dinner, Alfresco
If you’re looking for Summer solo date ideas that will push you out your comfort zone a little bit – then a solo dinner date, eating alfresco, usually fits the bill.
The more you eat solo, the less worried you’ll be about it, remember? And on the plus side – you can indulge in anything and everything you like, completely care-free!
5) Go for an Alfresco Breakfast or Brunch
Does dinner feel a little too daunting? Then go for an alfresco breakfast or brunch instead.
Fuel your body with feel-good food, and your mind with relaxed vibes and a real sense of accomplishment.
Everyone’s always more care-free in Summer remember? So you may be surprised by how easy this one ends up being.
Take a book with you if you need, and treat yourself to an extra iced coffee, juice and pastry!
6) Go To an Open Air Cinema
This is one of the classic summer date ideas you have to do – so why not go alone?!
Take a picnic, find a movie screening you really fancy, and you’ll get so lost in a storyline, you won’t even realise you’ve gone on your own!
The alternative? A drive in cinema screening. That way you also have the comfort of being snuggled in your car. It still gets you out and about though and is a completely different experience!
7) Have a Movie Night In Your Garden
Looking for different Summer solo date ideas that are super bucket list worthy?
Then grab a mini movie projector (they’re crazily affordable!), set it up in your garden, throw duvets, blankets and pillows, and re-create your own movie night outdoors, at home!
WARNING: This is something you’ll then end up doing again and again – alone, plus with friends, family and a partner (if you have one!)
It’s such a special, unique experience. Speaking of which…
8, Go on a Hot Air Balloon Ride
This is a long-shot, I know, but I want to encourage you to really think outside the box when pulling together your own summer solo date ideas…
Do things you’ve always wanted to do, things you’ve never done before…
Tick off things from your singles bucket list (if you’re single), or take on adventures from your couples bucket list that your partner doesn’t want to do.
Don’t let anything stop you! Seize the moment, live for today!
Hot air balloon rides are actually the smoothest and most frequently running in Summertime, when the weather conditions are typically the calmest. So now’s the time…
9) Do a Water Adventure Tour
We’re talking something like canyoning, gorge walking or white water rafting.
What makes this one of the best summer solo date ideas?
Well, because you won’t really be on your own – you’ll do it with the safety and fun company in an organised group.
And, summer’s the best time for it. Plunging into cold water doesn’t feel like something to dread on a hot, sunny day!
10) Head To The Beach
Beach date ideas are another absolute must during Summer. Head there early to beat the crowds and spend the morning there.
Think – cute beach picnic, a good book, maybe even have a go at painting or drawing whilst you’re there. Speaking of which…
11) Do Some Summer Drawing
This is one of the most relaxing Summer solo date ideas. All you need is a sketchpad and pencil and you’re all good to go!
Head somewhere beautiful, have some refreshing snacks and drinks, and draw to your hearts content. It doesn’t matter how good you are at it.
Painting is another similar option too.
You might find it becomes a great creative outlet / release!
12) Treat Yourself to a Relaxing Overnight Stay
This is one of the solo date ideas you can do all year round, but you can’t forget to add it to your list for summertime too.
Think a relaxing solo spa retreat, or weekend getaway with retail therapy. The options are endless!
13) Paint Tote Bags in the Garden
There’s endless craft date ideas you can do, but this is an especially nice idea during Summer, as tote bags are practical and stylish choices for summer…
This means you’ll decorate something you can actually use!
Grab a couple of plain tote bags ready for customisation, and some fabric paints, then go as simple or as creative as you want with your designs. This is your time, there’s no judgments here!
What else goes well with this? Well…
14) Make Summer Cocktails / Mocktails
Speaking of sweet Summer solo date night ideas – there’s too many fun and creative Summer mocktails or cocktails for you to miss out on this one!
Blast some music one evening and see what you can come up with or re-create! Similarly…
15) Do Some Summer Baking
Even if you think that baking isn’t really your thing – this is actually a surprisingly satisfying solo date idea. It’s also non-intimidating as you can do it from the comfort of your own home.
From a fruity summer pudding to the all-too-tempting tarts – there’s endless recipes you can attempt.
And the best part of doing them as a solo date? It doesn’t matter how wrong they may end up going! You simply try again and no-one has to know!
Talking of sweet treats for Summer, we cannot forget…
16) Toast S’Mores Under The Fire
A S’Mores date is a must during Summer and YES – you can still do it on your own!
If you don’t already have a fire pit and don’t fancy the job of having to set it up for yourself – consider grabbing a mini tabletop fire pit instead.
You can still indulge in the same tasty treats and take it outdoors if you want even, but it’s a little easier. (Uh huh, nothing can stop you from doing these epic bucket list summer date ideas hey?!)
17) Decorate Your Own Pizza
Everyone talks about BBQ’s over Summer, but one of the best Summer solo date ideas, is instead – pizza making or, if you don’t want to make your own base, pizza decorating!
Roll out your pizza into whatever shape you want, then have a go at making a pretty design, before taking it to eat outside.
It’s fun, simple, yet seriously satisfying!
The only rule with this one? Like with all of these solo dates, we recommend switching your phone on flight mode and making the most of the moment. Learn how to enjoy your own company. That’s a big part of it!
18) Grab an Ice Cream
This is one of the last foodie date ideas for here now, I promise, but we can’t forget to mention a simple solo ice cream date during summer can we?!
Find yourself a proper ice cream parlour – have extra scoops and sprinkles, and really treat yourself! It would be rude NOT to, right?!
19) Go To a Food Festival
Throughout Summer, there are heaps of food, drink, and music events. Does something take your fancy? Then book yourself a ticket and go along!
Food festivals are typically a little safer and easier to go to on your own. So be brave – try it out!
20) Do an Adventure Activity
We’re talking something like rock climbing, zip lining, Segways – take your pick!
Again, this makes for a great solo date as you’ll already be part of a group when you do it. But Summer offers the most options for things like this, so make the most of it.
21) Go Roller Skating
Roller skating has significantly grown in popularity over the years, but with good reason – it’s a lot of fun! Grab yourself some roller skates this Summer and try teaching yourself.
You can then skate around endless paths and trails – far faster, without having to worry about anyone else keeping up with you!
It’s a fun, free (once you’ve made that first initial investment) solo date idea you’ll want to do again and again. It also gets you developing fun new hobbies, which boosts self esteem.
22) Have a Sunset Car Picnic
A solo picnic date is a must this summer, but if you want to step it up a notch – consider a car sunset picnic instead.
You still have all the same stuff – only you drive somewhere scenic, pull up roadside, get yourself comfy with cushions and blankets and indulge whilst you watch the sunset.
It really is a dreamy summer solo date that everyone should do – at least once in their life!
23) Chill By a Pool
Another fun idea for Summer is to have a pool day!
See if you can find an outdoor pool in your local area… Even if that means treating yourself to a spa day.
It’ll be one of the best things you do this Summer – lying back, relaxing… You’ll feel like you’re abroad on vacation, for sure!
24) Go on a Sweet Summer Walk
I know, I know, you were wondering when this solo date recommendation would be thrown in, right? But in some ways – we’re saving the best ’til last.
After all, one thing you have to do this Summer is make the most of the weather and go on a pretty walk by yourself. Take the time to think, reflect and appreciate the beauty all around you.
It’s one of the easiest Summer solo date ideas you can do to get you into it!
That’s All For This One
So there we have it – that rounds up our top 24+ Summer solo date ideas to help inspire you and encourage you.
Be sure to SAVE this article so that you can keep coming back to it, and let us know how you get on by dropping a comment down below.
Good luck! Have fun. And feel damn proud of yourself for every solo date that you do.
This is your time. Your life. So make the most of it!
Wishing you all the very best.
Love,
Ell_xx
